Just a question here. What is society judging us, and what is our own fears of what the rest of society will think? I'm pretty open about my kinks, (it's not like I rub it in peoples noses but anyway) and I've noticed that few care. It's either "oh, what ever" or "that's cool". And I have a wide variety of friends with many different interests.

Sure there's vocal religious lunatics in the media condemning us. But they're crazy. Westborough Baptist church is like what, 7 people? 5?

I think a large part of this feeling Wyld Wyl expressed so eloquently is just our own fears. Or maybe I'm just shielded from all evil here in atheist Sweden? But I don't think so.

I clearly remember as a kid that which I wanted the most was what scared me the most. I was afraid of getting what I wanted. Is this what it's about?