Thanx lily, that was really helpful. As for why i specified, it wasnt cuz i though anyone would judge me (if that was the case i wouldn't have posted at all :P). I guess i just wanted to clarify that it wasn't something i was going to do tonite...for whatever reason. I do plan on trying it, definately. In fact i have tried a few times using my fingers or other slender objects (never actual toys..dont own any).

To be honest the few times i did try, i never found it pleasurable. not in the same way as masturbation anyway. I mean it didn't hurt either, but definately not the same pleasure some people seem to get. Maybe i was just doing it wrong . I wonder if toys would be better...perhaps the vibration is what's needed, i dunno.