Anal sex and safety

[WyldWyl]

Aye, nonoxonyl-9 is pretty nasty, but you can get them without it. Also, Lily, you might try finding some Avanti brand condoms, they're made of different stuff, and they might help.

Otherwise, to reiterate.
1. Lotsa lube. Seriously, you want enough, and then you want a little more. Don't be afraid to stop to re-lube during the act, either.
2. Start small.
3. Start slow...very slow indeed.
4. Enjoy it, it can feel great.
5. See 4.

[lily27]

Also, Lily, you might try finding some Avanti brand condoms, they're made of different stuff, and they might help.

I have tried those too (I once dated a guy with a latex allergy). They were ok... but are still condoms.

At this point I am in a commited relationship, and pregnant, so condoms are rather moot at this point!