Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
In today's world there is a large risk in anal sex, aids has not gone away and there is still no cure for it.

I hate condoms but love anal so for a new submissive partner I will use one or go without. If she is mine in a long term exclusive relationship then the condom will not be used.

I wonder how many woman prefer anal bareback to with a condom. I would hope that feeling my actual cock in there is much more pleasant then knowing that it is latex that is touching them?
Condoms no matter how much you hate them are probably the most effective tool we have against STDs. Lily is correct in saying that some of the spermicide is toxic so I'd second in using the ones without them.

@ browny: If you are going to use condoms for anal I'd suggest having adequate lube, the reason is that there is a lot of friction back there when compared to a vagina because of the shape of the anus so the condom will easily tear or come undone and be left in there.

I'd heavily advise using condom as again due to the shape of the anus it has a larger surface area and is easier to contract STDs. I'm not saying either you or your partner have them but be wary of safety ... or that just may be my virology course drilling this into my mind too much heh