i think the only disappointments ive ever had were in myself, i imagined i would be the mythical perfect little sub.yep i spent too much time on the internet lol
i guess i kind of expected that i would be the good little girl who was swept up,taken away and looked after ..for happily ever after! then i learned the story doesnt always end that way and that like any r/ship it takes time patience and even hard work sometimes (im more of a realist than a romanticist) and that half of what you're led to believe on the net is just plain BS and although the dynamics are different the same 'rules' still apply as in vanilla r/ships.
as for the no no's i had .... apart from 3 of them (which i still have) i cant even remember what they were now lol