Doms differences

[gemmy]

many, and online is heavy populated with these, are only in it for the kink and find willing submissives who can be easily talked into doing things to offer the supposed 'Dom' a cheap thrill or kick without care or regard to the emotional damage they may be causing that submissive

far rarer, is the sincere Dominant who knows and understands well that this is just as much or more of a mental journey into the subs mind and that the sex, although wickedly delicious, is only one side of their submission - to these Dominants, the responsibility is taken quite seriously and they have no desire to damage anyone in their care and therefore would never ask or try to coerce a sub before they were truly ready to be taken there.

[jeanne]

far rarer, is the sincere Dominant who knows and understands well that this is just as much or more of a mental journey into the subs mind and that the sex, although wickedly delicious, is only one side of their submission - to these Dominants, the responsibility is taken quite seriously and they have no desire to damage anyone in their care and therefore would never ask or try to coerce a sub before they were truly ready to be taken there.

They are rare. But when you find one...hang on. You're in for the ride of your life!

[icey]

the ones who insist you should kneel are usually just jerks who dont seem to know how to talk to anyone full stop.

but i guess sometimes it may be if they are new to the scene they think they have to live up to what often appears to be the 'norm' for Dom/mes on the net,depending on which sites you come across lol
just as some submissives to begin with are not quite sure whether they should refer to every Dom/me as Master Mistress etc

if you politely put them straight the first time they generally will react in one of two ways, either they apologise and admit its all new and they're unsure,or you get the...you're not a 'true sub' and/or abusive ones ...you can soon sort the wheat from the chaff

[His_blizzard]

They are rare. But when you find one...hang on. You're in for the ride of your life!

That is so true! I consider myself so blessed.