I understand where you are coming from. It is quite hard to easily answer a question that conveys how you feel.

For me it is difficult to come to terms with something that others may not understand fully or even that I cannot completely understand it as well.

Sometimes though the most simplistic of answers will suffice. You can dig down all you want but it may be difficult to express into words how you good you really feel.

Your actions are at times enough to convey your position. If you need to put it into words, think back to a time where you turned a corner and realized that you were who you were and liked it.