My profile says I'm a switch because I believe I am. (Strange that not everybody who comes to a place like this is so interested in the the truth as it applies to them instead of trying to act a part for the sole purpose of cybering.) So far, I've only had a few people (not sure exactly how many, but certainly less than 5) attempt to solicit me to Dom them. (I realize this thread is about Dommes, per se, but I think some of the information can equally apply to Doms.) So far, nearly all of these attempts have been declined on the grounds that, while I do have such interests in exploring my Dom side, I feel like I truly need to explore my subbie side first. I've never received a disrespectful solicitation, something which you all seem to be talking about here. In any event, it would take the right kind of person for me, at either side, to be willing to make that kind of commitment. I'm more than willing to "play" online if I'm in the right mood, and I do enjoy it, but it would take somebody really special for me to even think about going beyond that, even if I thought I was ready for it. With some people, maybe I am, but certainly not with everybody.