Nicely put, Tigerlily.

I’m convinced that we are born with submissive traits; hot wired through our genes somehow, to crave the thrill of forced sex. If we have fantasies of kidnap, imprisonment and rape before any abuse ever takes place, then it can’t possibly be caused by the abuse, can it?

I’ve never been abused but whilst I was growing up and discovering my weird self, I put myself in some really compromising positions and did some pretty dangerous stuff simply because I felt compelled to act out these things in my mind.

I'm not looking for a cure