well that's pretty scarey icey hun wow

yes, i do have many of the above traits with the exception of the obsession of cleaning lol i'm not a pig most certainly but my house gets to be quite a pit sometimes with just two gurls living in it

i would add that not only along with criticism being taken very hurtfully as is
anyone raising their voice to me almost immediately brings me to tears, regardless of who it is

i'll have to keep this one in my head and see what others i can think of as i'm sure there are many more

great post!