common traits

[gemmy]

ok so if we don't mind getting back on topic....

would it be safe to say that we (submissives) let an unusual amount of people around us take extreme advantage? friends, family, employers

I used to be the worst for letting people run and dictate my life - now seeing it for what it is, I've had more than a few people walk away from me because now apparently I'm rude for not wanting to any longer bend to their will

[Cool Luke's Hand]

ok so if we don't mind getting back on topic....

would it be safe to say that we (submissives) let an unusual amount of people around us take extreme advantage? friends, family, employers

No. Maybe you do, maybe the rest of you do, maybe it's a side-effect of being a woman rather than being a submissive, all I know is that I don't. I don't fall into many of the above categories either.

[gemmy]

No. Maybe you do, maybe the rest of you do, maybe it's a side-effect of being a woman rather than being a submissive, all I know is that I don't. I don't fall into many of the above categories either.

Ummmm hostile much? ok good for you, you too are UNIQUE - wow what a revelation!!!

AGAIN, was just put as something to think about, and i don't really care if i'm the only one - i'm never above being proved wrong

Fairly pathetic trying to have a discussion lately with a few specific people who just have to piss in your corn flakes just for the sake of attention *rolls eyes* - it would be different if you even bothered to add something constructive as opposed to just venting your unwanted hostility on all of us

[icey]

ok so if we don't mind getting back on topic....

would it be safe to say that we (submissives) let an unusual amount of people around us take extreme advantage? friends, family, employers

I used to be the worst for letting people run and dictate my life - now seeing it for what it is, I've had more than a few people walk away from me because now apparently I'm rude for not wanting to any longer bend to their will

yep! ive been at the end of that particular one lol its frustrating as im considered the most contrary and awkward one of all by most who know me yet im the one who every time gave in to everything and everyone so when i dont i guess it stands out more and it winds them up.

ive noticed that people here have been saying women subs but ive found that a lot of male subs have many of the same traits.

heres another one
defending and explaining anything and everything, often going into great detail.

i still havnt worked out if that ones because we feel we should or because we just have a need to...if it makes sense?