I'm a HUGE proponent of the "kill 'em with kindness" school of thought. Every unsolicited PM I've ever gotten from a Dom, asking me what I'm into or whatever...I respond with a hello and welcome to the forums and a wish that they find what they're looking for. Fortunately, that's a rare occurrence, perhaps because most are at least smart enough to realize that "Chosen By the Best" means just that?![]()