I think this runs along the same answer from a thread called "trusting vanillas" by icey

Most of the people around me have an idea but I don't go into detail, nor would I about my sex life to anyone who didn't want to know

My daughter (14) on the other hand knows entirely about the lifestyle and my wants, it's not something I would hide from her but also won't put in her face either same as I wouldn't put ANY kind of sexual act in her face, or anyone else's for that matter. I just don't lie to my daughter and it's the only reason she knows - she's a very mature child and knew almost as much about it as I did when we sat down and talked about it last year lol