Sir Russell has an excellent point. I used to have an addiction when I was at uni too, but not the same thing.

When I was at uni, in the late 80s and early 90s, I was addicted to a computer baseball game. During my time home, I would play it for hours a day when not working or doing school work. One semester, my father bought me a computer for college, and I took the game with me. During the hours I had to work or be with friends, I just kept it in the drawer, saying to myself "The game isnt here, it doesnt exist". While I know that a sexual fetish, and great website like this, isnt the same thing as a computer game, trust me, I know both can be addictive. I have to do this myself, with the forum, when I'm working, or out with friends. I just try to compartmentalize it, thinking to myself "Okay, have to work now, or have to be with friends now. BDSM forum doesnt exist, until I get home, and have free time, just have to forget about it for now.". As much as I wonder about the chatroom, or what posts have been made, I just know I can always see it later, after I do my important tasks of life.

I hope what I said helped. Good Luck.

Mitch