Please Help!

[newslave]

Thank you all so much for your help...you don't know how valuable this is to me. My Dom has no response, though, except to say that we should have sex. I think that i'm in trouble.

[jeanne]

Thank you all so much for your help...you don't know how valuable this is to me. My Dom has no response, though, except to say that we should have sex. I think that i'm in trouble.

No, you're not in trouble. He is, because he just showed his true face. A vanilla who wants some kinky fun. If that's not what you want, then follow Sir_Russell's advice and be done with him.

[Lion]

Thank you all so much for your help...you don't know how valuable this is to me. My Dom has no response, though, except to say that we should have sex. I think that i'm in trouble.

If that is his response to your fears....my suggestion, drop him immediately. There are doms out there that not only have the ability to dominate you physcially, but mentally (as opposed to your current from what you've said so far).

University is a tough time...I'm going through it myself, and it's really easy to get addicted to something or someone else that your grade suffers. In the end, finding a good dom IMO takes time, for now, try other ways in satisfying your submissive needs (I think BDSMlibrary Academy does something of that sort), there are munches you can attend once in a while, try a role play. It doesn't match up to the real thing, but it's a start, and you can ease into your level of submissiveness. Take care though, don't fall for any guy that 'appears' to be dom, there are a lot of fakes out there that have the potential to hurt you badly by simply using your submissiveness for easy sex.

My university education is more important to me then anything else at the moment. Everytime I feel that I'm slipping, or something is occupying my mind to a limit it seems like an obsession, I play tennis with my best friend, or jog, socialize, and repeat this mantra that education is my future. It's what has worked for me. Try your hardest to find what searches for you and stick to it, you'll find the person you will truely want to submit forever.

[sidhewolf]

Thank you all so much for your help...you don't know how valuable this is to me. My Dom has no response, though, except to say that we should have sex. I think that i'm in trouble.

Goodness! Didn't see this one <grimace>.

And I'm not meaning to be harsh or disrespectfull, but seems you have a predator Not a Dom you have been speaking with. And I also hate to start up the Real Dom vs wannabe Topic; but I dunno if this one even qualifies as a wannabe?

You shouldn't be in any "trouble" unless possibly you have given this person Personal information about yourself like address, phone numbers, PICs? If so you may need to safeguard by telling someone you Trust ITF about the situation? You mentioned you have roomates, maybe they or at least one of them Needs to Know if you have given out personally identifying information as mentioned above?

IF this were me (which I Know it isn't) I would write and tell this person to go away and not to contact me anymore.

Be Safe NewSlave!

Respectfully~SidheWolf