Thank you all so much for your help...you don't know how valuable this is to me. My Dom has no response, though, except to say that we should have sex. I think that i'm in trouble.
No, you're not in trouble. He is, because he just showed his true face. A vanilla who wants some kinky fun. If that's not what you want, then follow Sir_Russell's advice and be done with him.
Working too much....and unfortunately not online as much as I'd like.