I agree with jeanne and Lion. This so-called "Dom" is not worth your time or trouble. All he's looking for is some nooky. A Dom who is worth your time is someone who respects you and understands and accepts what is important to you. And right now that is your college education. That should be what is important to both of you. Right now focus on your schoolwork and your vanilla life and take your time finding the right Dom for you.