Why does he do this?

[alpha_Straye]

ARRGGHHH, I'm so frustrating with DH. I'm hot and horny and playful, set everything up, started to lure him into the bedroom and he balks and wants to cuddle a while first, he ate too much dinner, he's tired, he doesn't feel good, all of the above. So I cuddle and get sleepy, and try again so my sorry ass doesn't fall asleep frustrated(did I mention I'm completely naked here and am threatening him with all sorts of "good" stuff? And he offers up shaving my legs and pussy, which isn't exactly as aggressive as I had in mind, but still enjoyable. So I cave and agree and now he's pissy because I caved. "If you really was feeling dominant you shouldn't have caved".

Dammit, then get your sorry ass in bed and shut the hell up!

Why does he do this? Why does he feel the need to resist and duck and throw up other options and then get completely pissy when I respect his moods and whining? It's exhausted to practically beg for something we both want.

And hello all, after a long break, I wish I didn't only post when I'm ticked off at DH, but it just seems to work out that way.

well Ma'am it sounds to me like he doesnt want to be talked into it. if he feels he has the option to take it or leave it as he chooses, that it's his choice not Yours.. well that can make some submissives feel insecure about Your Dominance. perhaps if You said Your "get your sorry ass in bed and shut the hell up!" out loud to him at the time? and then made it stick? it might be worth a shot *smile*. it sounds to me like maybe he's wanting to know Youre in charge and wont give in to him.