Quote Originally Posted by sidhewolf View Post
My thoughts are get> what You Want from him When You Want it. Unless he's deathly ill or something, and You need to consider Health and/or Safety, Y Not?

Respectfully~SidheWolf
but isnt in some ways that unfair or even wrong?

its a bit of a dilemma as being the Dominant you have the control or should have ,to decide what where when etc,but when it comes to sex it gets into murky waters, if it was a girl we were talking about wouldnt most people jump on the bandwagon and say hey regardless of D/s and all its dynamics you cant really force her? shes a human being as well as a sub/slave etc look for someone else,could there be any underlying emotional issues and such.



or maybe the being pissy is actually because he feels guilt,useless and a failure? and like with anyone especially men (im guessing) that just makes things harder each time, regardless of D/s and it's dynamics, in fact that probably in itsself puts him under more pressure and feel even worse.

obviously i dont know the circumstances and situation and im probably way of track as usual and i apologise if im speaking out of line,but isnt it worth considering all angles?