*sneaks in quietly, nervous* I've never started a topic in here before hehe

Ok, so I've noticed a lot of the submissive gurls posting and wondering what are some things that go on in a Dominants mind and wanted to share a post from another group that was posted by my dear friend and mentor whom I love still a lot - I hope it adds a little insight as it certainly did for me.

I hope more Dom's open up on this so we can peek inside *smiles*

"not really my thing posting topics, I like to be in the background as it were, but I have an interest in this room, or club as it seems to me, a cosy club,,,, well I have an interest in the form of a very smart girl, and well to be honest she keeps nudging me to post something,,,so I was thinking, as I do sometimes, maybe it might be an idea to hear one of the Doms thoughts, I thought I would just share a few things of what it means to be me, these are only personal feelings, these are things I need to give my girl, what I take is another part of the bigger picture, and I understand many have other ideas about what it means to be an Alpha male, but for me its a general love and fascination of all women, this to me is vital, an inherent confidence in oneself that makes me have no need to try and bring anyone else down or belittle anyone, or for that matter try and impress anyone in any way, taking the time to truly find out what makes my girl tick, what she wants, what she needs, and work on making it happen, the ability to show outwardly great love and affection without seeming needy, a desire to bring out of my girl anything that she has in her that needs to be released, good or bad,single minded in my determination to look after my girls mental and physical well being, a silent authority about myself that my girl is always aware of but is in no way scared of, a fierce burning passion that knows no boundaries, and strong emotional bond with my girl, but with an inner calm always,,,,well anyway, before I babble on for an eternity, thats sort of some of the things that go on in me as an Alpha, and what I get in return, well you know."

*sighs* I know He won't mind my re-posting it and I look forward to seeing the responses