He hasn't used a full stop anywhere right up until the end. An accomplishment in itself really. It seems like you have an amazing friend/Dom here, who has quite a way with words too. He really has caught two of the points which to me also are most important.

First of all the confidence in oneself, which of course is generally important but essential for being a Dom. I will never do anything I do just because of what someone else thinks. If you are dependant on other peoples' perception of you, you are not fit to lead.

Secondly there is that desire to bring out anything a girl has in her, be it good or bad, in a safe environment. It is truly beautiful to see that change, as a girl grows more pure, closer to herself. I myself have seen it but once, but would recommend it to anyone.

I do have an intense interest in what makes people tick, what they most enjoy and most fear. I think a Dom needs this, because these little facts about someone allow you to open them up and, while doing so, keep them safe. I enjoy trying to find these things out, preferably without the girl noticing.

What matters most, I believe, is that whatever you bring out in a submissive, will allow them to be closer to themselves than they were and be stronger because of it.