Lingeriebitchboy,
Please do not that this the wrong way but I have little experience with sub males. I would say though that your pretty new to the life but seem to have a willingness to expand your horizons. Since I don't know if your looking for a Dom or a Domme I am going to warn you to be careful in your selection. You need to be very open with any you are considering, show them you list and ask them to do one for you. Then talk about are they willing to train you at a pace you can handle safely.