Activity Experience Willingness Activity Experience Willingness
Abrasion y 1 Injections: N N
Age play Y 2 Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: N 5
Anal sex: Y 5 Interrogations: N 1
Anal plugs (small) Y 4 Kidnapping: N 5
Anal plugs (large) N 1 Kneeling: Y 4
Anal plugs (under clothing in public) Y 2 Leather clothing: N 5
Animal roles Y 2 Restraints chains: Y 5
Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders): N 3 Restraints leather: Y 5
Asphyxiation: Y N Restraints rope: Y 5
Auctioned for charity: N 1 Lectures for misbehavior: Y 4
Bathroom use control: Y 2 Licking (non-sexual): y 3
Bestiality: N N Manacles & Irons: Y 5
Beating (soft): Y 2 Manicures (giving): N 3
Beating (hard): N 2 Massage (giving): Y 5
Blindfolds: Y 5 Massage (receiving): Y 4
Being serviced (sexual): Y 4 Medical scenes: N 5
Being bitten: Y 3 Modeling for erotic photos: Y 4
Breast/chest bondage: Y 5 Modeling for erotic videos: Y 4
Breath control: N 1 Mouth bits: N 4
Branding: Y N Mummification: Y 5
Boot worship: N 1 Nipple clamps: Y 5
Bondage (light): Y 5 Nipple cloths pins: Y 5
Bondage (heavy): Y 5 Nipple weights: N 4
Bondage (multi-day): N 5 Oral/anal play (rimming): Y 5
Bondage (public, under clothing): Y 5 Over-the-knee spanking: Y 5
Bondage and Sex: Y 5 Orgasm denial: Y 4
Breast whipping: Y 4 Orgasm control: Y 5
Brown showers (scat): N N Outdoor scenes: Y 4
Cages (locked inside of): N 4 Outdoor sex: Y 4
Caning: Y 4 Phone sex (serving Dom): Y 4
Catheterization: N N Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): N 3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): Y 1 Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): N 5
Chastity belts: Y 3 Piercing (permanent): y N
Chauffeuring: Y 3 Prison scenes: N 1
Choking: N N Pony slave: N 2
Clothespins breast/nipples: Y 4 Public exposure: Y 2
Clothespins labia lips/clit: Y 4 Public tasks: Y 3
Clothespins body: Y 3 Pussy/cock whipping: Y 4
Cock worship: Y 4 Pussy worship: N 3
Collars (worn in private): Y 5 Riding crops: Y 4
Collars (worn in public): Y 5 Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): N 4
Competitions (with other Subs): Y 3 Rituals: N 3
Corsets (wearing): Y 2 Religious scenes: N N
Cuffs: Y 5 Restrictive rules on behavior: Y 4
Cuffs: (metal) Y 5 Rubber/latex clothing: N 4
Cutting N N Rope body harness: Y 5
Dilation: N N Saran wrapping: Y 5
Double penetration: Y 5 Scratching – getting: Y 3
Electricity: Y 1 Scratching-giving Y 3
Enemas: Y 1 Sensory deprivation: N 5
Enforced chastity: N 1 Serving: Y 5
Examinations (physical): Y 4 Serving as art: N 5
Exercise (forced/required): Y 1 Serving as ashtray: N N
Exhibitionism (friends): Y 2 Serving as furniture: y 3
Exhibitionism (strangers): N 1 Serving as a maid: Y 4
Eye contact restrictions Y 1 Serving as toilet: N N
Face slapping: N N Serving as waitress/waiter: Y 5
Fantasy abandonment: N 1 Serving orally (sexual): Y 5
Fantasy rape: Y 4 Serving other Doms (supervised): N 4
Fantasy forced deep throat: Y 3 Serving other Doms (unsupervised): N 3
Fantasy forced cunt licking: N 3 Sexual deprivation (short term): Y 4
Fantasy forced rape anal: Y 2 Sexual deprivation (long term): N 3
Fantasy gang-rape: N N Shaving (body hair): N 1
Fisting (anal): N N Shaving (head hair): N/A N/A
Fisting (vaginal): Y N Shaving (pubic hair): Y 2
Flogging Y 4 Spanking in private: Y 5
Following hand signals: N 3 Spanking in public: N 4
Following orders: Y 5 Spanking in bdsm party: N 5
Foot worship N 2 Spanking pleasure: Y 5
Forced dressing: Y 5 Spandex clothing: N 4
Forced homosexuality: N 1 Speech restrictions (when, what): Y 4
Forced masturbation: Y 3 Speculums (Anal): N 1
Forced nudity (private): Y 5 Speculums (Vagina): N 4
Forced nudity (around others): Y 4 Spreader bars: y 5
Forced servitude: Y 5 Standing in corner: Y 4
Full head hoods: N 5 Stocks (adjustable): y 5
Gags (cloth): Y 5 Stocks (fixed): N 5
Gags (penis shaped): Y 5 Straight jackets: N 5
Gags (rubber): Y 5 Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): Y 5
Gags (tape): N 5 Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): Y 5
Gates of Hell: N/A N/A Strap-on-dildos (wearing): Y 5
Genital sex: N/A N/A Strapping (full body beating): N 2
Given away to another Dom (temp): N 2 Suspension (upright); y 5
Given away to another Domme (temp): N 2 Suspension (inverted): y 5
Given away to another Dom (perm): N 2 Suspension (horizontal): y 5
Given away to another Domme (perm): N 2 Supplying new partners for Dom: N 1
Golden showers: N N Swallowing semen: Y 1
Greetings rituals: Y 4 Swallowing urine: N N
Hairbrush spankings: Y 5 Swapping (with one other couple): y 1
Hair pulling: Y 5 Swinging (multiple couples): N 1
Hand jobs (giving): Y 4 Tattooing: y N
Hand jobs (receiving): Y 4 Teasing: Y 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): Y 5 Tickling: Y 5
Harnessing (leather): N 5 Triple penetration: Y 5
Harnessing (rope): N 5 Triple penetration by 3 males: y 4
Having food chosen for you: Y 5 Uniforms: N 4
Having clothing chosen for you: Y 5 Including others: Y 4
Head (giving cunnilingus): Y 4 Vaginal dildo: Y 5
Head (giving fellatio): N N Verbal humiliation: Y 3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Y 4 Vibrator on genitals: Y 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): N N Voyeurism (watching others): Y 4
High heel worship: N 1 Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Y 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Y 1 Video (watching others): Y 3
Hot oils (on genitals): Y 4 Video (recordings of you): Y 4
Hot waxing: Y 4 Water torture: N 1
Housework (doing): Y 3 Wearing symbolic jewelry: N 4
Human puppy dog: N 3 Whipping: N 4
Humiliation (private): Y 3
Humiliation (public): Y 3
Hypnotism: N 3
Ice cubes: Y 5
Infantilism: N 1
Initiation rites: N 2