I have said this a bunch but when a Dom/Masters finds his one she becomes the most important thing in his life. He will put her real needs in front of his own.

All his training and effort go not into transforming her into his ideal but to bring forth her real person. I know what I want from a sub/slave yet some aren't either ready to be that or are capable to be it. That is where the life becomes difficult, how do I deal with it. I have to find a way to make us both happy or end it.

Each time if it is minor then I work hard to help her grow and reassess if my needs are really that important that all her other traits don't make up for the ones she lacks.