just found this thread since minx's comment.
She left out that that we had talked often that I won't be mistrusted. That she had done this several times even though I was all ways upfront with her. She was lectured on this behave and given punishment after 2 incidents for it.
Some may think that jealousy is wonderful but I have been there in the past and won't go back there. It implies that I lie to her, cheat on her, and hide things from her. I did none of those. So yes release happened since it is a flaw I won't deal with.
Oh, and why would she want a Dom or Master that she feels that way about.