Protocol?

[annie]

An interesting thought........


How come i don't feel the need to take such precautions with other subs? Or just women for that matter......Domme or sub.

Should we be taking these very same precautions with everyone on line??...Or is it just you Dom's???.......lol. Is the vouch safe of someone you trust enough??

I may be naive about this one but for me it is enough. Im going be gallivanting around with a girl I've never met and .........im going to have the greatest time in the world!

Honestly Thrall, in my opinion you should do the same precautions wiht anyone you meet for the first time, especially on line, be them male/female, Dom or sub.

That being said... do I? ummmmmmmm... no. Just becasue it doesn't cross my mind too.

Also, the Doms/men should be taking the EXACT same precautions. I may be a female but that doesn't mean I can't still drug them without their knowledge, lure them somewhere, etc. I could follow them from the restaurant, etc. Heck my "safe" call could even be finalizing details of having help in doing them in. How are they to know or stay safe?

It only makes sense. Now if the big bad Doms didn't think they were invincible most of the time and do it is an entirely different challenge.... *laughs*

[thrall]

Honestly Thrall, in my opinion you should do the same precautions wiht anyone you meet for the first time, especially on line, be them male/female, Dom or sub.

That being said... do I? ummmmmmmm... no. Just becasue it doesn't cross my mind too.

Yes i understand that.....i will usually meet for time meet in a public place....but with a sub i dont feel the need to do all the safe call thing..... And as to protocol of how to act.....i treat them as i would anyone else. I treat them with friendly casual respect and open honest friendship.....

But that being said.....the subs that i am going to meet soon i just plain trust 100% sight unseen.....(hugs to both of you)

[Tojo]

Thanks Alex- I accept that.

Oz- yeah, we're getting lost in the language here!

Answer this question please- which does actually relate to Amber's original post.

Suppose jane, who calls herself a sub, meets Master Jack, who calls himself a Dom.

They've never met face to face, & only know each other from a forum (much like this one)

Do you believe jane should call him 'Master Jack' which is how he identifies on the forum, or should she call him Jason- which is the name his mother gave him & his real name?

Secondly, should she treat him with more respect than she'd treat anyone else, for the simple reason that he's said 'I'm a Dom.'

[Ozme52]

Oz- yeah, we're getting lost in the language here!

Answer this question please- which does actually relate to Amber's original post.

Suppose jane, who calls herself a sub, meets Master Jack, who calls himself a Dom.

They've never met face to face, & only know each other from a forum (much like this one)

Do you believe jane should call him 'Master Jack' which is how he identifies on the forum, or should she call him Jason- which is the name his mother gave him & his real name?

Secondly, should she treat him with more respect than she'd treat anyone else, for the simple reason that he's said 'I'm a Dom.'

For all intents and purposes I answered this already in response to your Regent Tojo question.

Master, Mister, what's the difference. It means nothing if that's the only name he's known by. If he tells her his name is Jason, then that is the same as Mr. Bossname telling you his name is Bob... a tacit invitation to use his given name.

Secondly... again! No! What I said was... no more respect than you might give your boss, which in my eyes, is the same respect I give to anyone upon meeting them for the first time. I only uses familiar terms of address with my friends and social acquaintances.


BTW, I really loathed answering you after J-Go asked us to desist. I ignored the general comments because I was trying to respect his wishes. But you called me out by name...

J-Go, I hope you understand why I responded.

[DowntownAmber]

BTW, I really loathed answering you after J-Go asked us to desist. I ignored the general comments because I was trying to respect his wishes. But you called me out by name...

J-Go, I hope you understand why I responded.

The thread stayed quiet just long enough for J to squeeze in a good spanking session (well, okay, a quick ass slap) before he sent me off to Wisconsin for the weekend. It's just lucky there are no WI Doms lurking or we could get this whole damn bee's nest stirred up again!