If I may, questions are normally good things and I think most Doms see them that way. They should be asked with respect and their answers should be listened to carefully. A question is normal a chance to train the sub/slave in an area that may have slipped past the Dom.

A question though is listened to by the Dom at a level that make it revealing to him of his possession. Questions and their answers do shape and direct the relationship. Most times they cause the relationship to grow stronger but sometimes they show that the relationship will be troubled. Either way they are good to help the individual decide whether to continue, grow, or find that it is not for them.