Quote Originally Posted by tessa View Post
Why would any of those be difficult to ask? And so what if it pisses them off? You have your answer if they do get riled by any of them. And besides, you're only going to get their version of the truth, so the answers will be basically worth less than nothing anyway. There's that.

Except for the STD question. And no one should accept just words for that answer. If you weren't there personally at the appointment to hear that person's results for yourself, request a faxed copy of the results be sent to you directly from the doctor's office (or wherever the testing was done). Then verify that the fax indeed came from the doctor's office (or wherever).

Difficult? Hell, yes. But if there's nothing to hide, it's no big deal. I'd rather have a pissed off bullshitter on my hands than HIV running through my veins.

And an FYI: just remember that condoms, dental dams, et all... won't protect you against all STD's. Educate yourself!

Yes, it's me, tessa. Spreading joy and sunshine all over. Rather this than something else. Unless where talking about legs. Those are good to spread.

So my answer is, ask the questions. Seriously. Being a submissive doesn't mean you leave yourself open to whoever or whatever the hell is out there just because it's uncomfortable to ask. No meeting with anyone is worth that risk.

Very well said. So spread the word this time.