Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List

I’m looking for a Master, so I thought I should do this.
Very unlikely to have casual play-partners
As you can see I am inexperienced. Most of my experience is self-inflicted or with an on-line Dom.
I also know I am not slave material.
I’ve used 3 as I am not sure, but would like to try it

Abrasion: no-2
Age play: yes-2
Anal sex: no-3
Anal plugs (small): yes-4
Anal plugs (large): no-3
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no-4
Animal roles: no-2
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no-2
Asphyxiation: no-2
Auctioned for charity: no-3
Bathroom use control: yes-3
Bestiality: no-3
Beating (soft): yes-5
Beating (hard): no-3
Blindfolds: yes-5
Being serviced (sexual): no-2
Being bitten: no-4 (if no skin broken)
Breast/chest bondage: yes-4
Breath control: no-2
Branding: no-2
Boot worship: no-1
Bondage (light): yes-5
Bondage (heavy): no-3
Bondage (multi-day): no-3
Bondage (public, under clothing): no-4
Bondage and Sex: no-5
Breast whipping: yes-4
Brown showers (scat): no-No
Cages (locked inside of):no-3
Caning: no-3
Catheterization: no-3
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no-3
Chastity belts: no-3
Chauffeuring: no-3
Choking: no-2
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes-3
Clothespins labia lips/clit: no-3
Clothespins body: no-3
Cock worship: no-3
Collars (worn in private): yes-5
Collars (worn in public): no-2
Competitions (with other Subs): no-2
Corsets (wearing): no-3
Cuffs: no-5
Cuffs (metal): no-3
Cutting: no-2
Dilation: no-3
Double penetration: yes (with dildos)-4
Electricity: no-3
Enemas: yes-2
Enforced chastity: no-2
Examinations (physical): no-4
Exercise (forced/required): yes-1
Exhibitionism (friends): no-4
Exhibitionism (strangers): yes(headless photos)-3
Eye contact restrictions: no-4
Face slapping: no-1
Fantasy abandonment: no-No
Fantasy rape: no-4
Fantasy forced deep throat: no-3
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no-2
Fantasy forced rape anal: no-2
Fantasy gang-rape: no-3
Fisting (anal): no-3
Fisting (vaginal): no-3
Flogging: no-4/5
Following hand signals: no-2
Following orders: yes-5
Foot worship: no-2
Forced dressing: yes-3
Forced homosexuality: no-2
Forced masturbation: yes-5
Forced nudity (private): yes-5
Forced nudity (around others): no-4
Forced servitude: no-No
Full head hoods: no-2
Gags (cloth): no-2 hurts jaw
Gags (penis shaped): no-2 hurts jaw
Gags (rubber): no-2 hurts jaw
Gags (tape): yes-4
Gates of Hell: no-
Genital sex: yes-5
Given away to another Dom (temp): no-3
Given away to another Domme (temp): no-2
Given away to another Dom (perm): no-No
Given away to another Domme (perm): no-No
Golden showers: no-2
Greetings rituals: no-3
Hairbrush spankings: no-3
Hair pulling: no-2
Hand jobs (giving): yes-4
Hand jobs (receiving): yes-4
Harems (serving w/other subs): no-No
Harnessing (leather): no-3
Harnessing (rope): no-3
Having food chosen for you: no-3
Having clothing chosen for you: yes-4
Head (giving cunnilingus): no-2
Head (giving fellatio): no-3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes-3
Head (receiving fellatio male only): N/A
High heel worship: no-1
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no-2
Hot oils (on genitals): no-3
Hot waxing: yes-4
Housework (doing): yes-2 sorry I am lazy
Human puppy dog: no-1
Humiliation (private): yes-4 embarassent not degradation
Humiliation (public): no-4 embarassent not degradation
Hypnotism: no-2
Ice cubes: yes-4
Infantilism: no-1
Initiation rites: no-4
Injections: yes (insulin)-4
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no-2
Interrogations: no-2
Kidnapping: no-4
Kneeling: no-(would like to, but I don’t think y knees can take it)
Leather clothing: no-3
restraints chains: no-5
restraints leather: no-5
restraints rope: yes-5
Lectures for misbehavior: yes-3
Licking (non-sexual): no-3
Manacles & Irons: no-4
Manicures (giving): no-2
Massage (giving): yes-5
Massage (receiving): yes-5
Medical scenes: no-4

Modeling for erotic photos: yes(headless)-3
Modeling for erotic videos: no-3
Mouth bits: no-2
Mummification: no-3
Nipple clamps: yes-4
Nipple cloths pins: yes-2
Nipple weights: no-3
Oral/anal play (rimming): no-1
Over-the-knee spanking: no-3
Orgasm denial: yes-4
Orgasm control: yes-4
Outdoor scenes: no-5
Outdoor sex: no-5
Phone sex (serving Dom): no-2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no-2
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): yes-4
Piercing (permanent): yes (ears)-5
Prison scenes: no-4
Pony slave: no-2
Public exposure: no-4 (to a consenting audiance)
Public tasks: yes-3
Pussy/cock whipping: no-4
Pussy worship: no-2
Riding crops: no-3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no-3
Rituals: no-4
Religious scenes: no-4
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes-4
Rubber/latex clothing: no-2
Rope body harness: no-3
Saran wrapping: no-3
Scratching – getting: no-2
Scratching – giving: no-2
Sensory deprivation: no-3
Serving: no-1
Serving as art: no-2
Serving as ashtray: no-No
Serving as furniture: no-1
Serving as a maid: no-1
Serving as toilet: no-No
Serving as waitress/waiter: no-2
Serving orally (sexual): no-1
Serving other Doms (supervised): no-2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no-1
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes-3
Sexual deprivation (long term): no-2
Shaving (body hair): yes-2 (I have very little body hair)
Shaving (head hair): no-1
Shaving (pubic hair): no-2
Sleep deprivation: no-1 (I have sleep disorders, i don’t need to get it more screwed up)
Sleep-sacks: no-2
Slutty clothing (private): no-4
Slutty clothing (public): no-3
Spanking in private: no-4
Spanking in public: no-2
Spanking in bdsm parties: no-3
Spanking pleasure: no-4
Spandex clothing: no-3
Speech restrictions (when, what): no-4
Speculums (Anal): no-3
Speculums (vaginal): no-3
Spreader bars: no-3
Standing in corner: yes-3
Stocks (adjustable): no-3
Stocks (fixed): no-2
Straight jackets: no-4
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no-2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): no-3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no-3
Strapping (full body beating): no-3
Suspension (upright); no-1 (I think I a too fat for safety)
Suspension (inverted): no-No (I think I a too fat for safety)
Suspension (horizontal): no-1 (I think I a too fat for safety)
Supplying new partners for Dom: no-No
Swallowing semen: no-3
Swallowing urine: yes-No
Swapping (with one other couple): no-No
Swinging (multiple couples): no-No
Tattooing: no-2
Teasing: yes-4
Tickling: no-3
Triple penetration: no-3
Triple penetration by 3 males: no-3
Uniforms: no-2
Including others: no-2
Vaginal dildo: yes-4
Verbal humiliation: no-No
Vibrator on genitals: yes-4
Voyeurism (watching others): no-2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no-1
Video (watching others): yes-2
Video (recordings of you): no-3
Water torture: no-3
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no-4
Whipping: no-3
Wooden paddles: no-3
Wrestling: no-3 (with Dom, not with others)


Thank-you very much Sir_Russell for doing this for us.