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i don't know if your comment was directed at me. So if i answer out of turn i apologize.
my Master and i have the greatest respect for eachother. I chose to kneel and i chose to beg him to be my Master, he chose to accept me. He has shown me that i am something very special. After being in an abusive relationship for several years i was trying so very hard to crawl out of the dark and there He was with a hand to guide me in to the light. I was a doormat once, but never again. He and i are a team, he leads and i follow willingly. Both in life and in this wonderful world of bdsm. Any frustration that we have is just as in any realtionship, like i stated, just a different flavor.