Trouble coping with real life?

[sisterhoney61 {RW}]

Please listen to the others and do NOT jump into a relationship simply out of desperation. There is an old saying that hungry people make poor shoppers, which is very true. If you go grocery shopping when you're hungry you start tossing whatever looks good to you in your cart, only to get home and find out that the stuff you bought is really no good for you. You bought it to satisfy your hunger, but the stuff was loaded with calories, sugar and fats, stuff you don't need.

The same thing applies to Doms. There are plenty out there that are the equivalent of junk food and no good for you. Been there, done that. Looking for the right Dom takes time and patience and persistence on your part. Read through the forums. Come visit U/us in the chat room. Browse through the personal ads here. Don't give off signals that you are desperate or the sharks will eat you up and spit you out. Remember that just because someone has "Master" or "Dom" or "Sir" or some other title in his name, doesn't mean that he is genuine. Anyone can add a title to his name, particularly when he's never owned a slave in his life.

Remember the words of Sgt. Esterhaus from Hill Street Blues: "Let's be careful out there!"

[Ozme52]

Please listen to the others and do NOT jump into a relationship simply out of desperation. There is an old saying that hungry people make poor shoppers, which is very true. If you go grocery shopping when you're hungry you start tossing whatever looks good to you in your cart, only to get home and find out that the stuff you bought is really no good for you. You bought it to satisfy your hunger, but the stuff was loaded with calories, sugar and fats, stuff you don't need.

The same thing applies to Doms. There are plenty out there that are the equivalent of junk food and no good for you. Been there, done that. Looking for the right Dom takes time and patience and persistence on your part. Read through the forums. Come visit U/us in the chat room. Browse through the personal ads here. Don't give off signals that you are desperate or the sharks will eat you up and spit you out. Remember that just because someone has "Master" or "Dom" or "Sir" or some other title in his name, doesn't mean that he is genuine. Anyone can add a title to his name, particularly when he's never owned a slave in his life.

Remember the words of Sgt. Esterhaus from Hill Street Blues: "Let's be careful out there!"

The Hungry Shopper analogy rocks sisterh, and is so true. Those who jump at the first chance rarely find themselves happy and such relationships go on the rocks all too soon.