Switchs please introduce yourselves here

[Blue_Monday]

Hi, I'm Lisa, and I've been lurking around here for months without introducing myself. I hated to label myself as either a Domme or a sub, because I switch back and forth frequently and easily--feels like cheating sometimes!

I'm hoping to marry my Master (who is also my slave boy) this summer. You might say we're "Bedroom BDSMers." We just do it for fun, sometimes mixing little chores around the house into sex or wearing something kinky out in public.

As a forum member, I hope that seeing BDSM from both sides (top and bottom) makes me better at contributing to both sides of the conversations here!

[thir]

Hi, I'm Lisa, and I've been lurking around here for months without introducing myself. I hated to label myself as either a Domme or a sub, because I switch back and forth frequently and easily--feels like cheating sometimes!

I am exploring a problem a bit like you mention, that is, on many lists it seems
you have to label yourself as either or. Why?

And a question for clarification if that is ok - what do you mean when you say that switching feels like cheating?