I had a look at that thread & couldn't really work out what was going on- it's one thing to sit down & talk to someone about their problems, & another to do a 'Dear Abby' from a couple of meandering paragraphs.

I think we all spend far too much time talking about/thinking about what a 'Dom' is or isn't. A Dom is nothing but a guy who can dominate a sub. Some can dominate more than one, & some think they could dominate anyone

Speaking purely for myself- I'm pretty confident in everday life, more in some areas than others. Whether I'm overbearing is something I'll let others decide.

I know where you're coming from in question 2. You don't have to look far to find so-called Doms fighting about who's top dog, & refusing to accept that they're not perfect. Every D/s board I've ever been on has a few.

All I can say is the day you think you're perfect, you stop growing.

I don't think it's appropriate to comment on that other thread.