My response was the whole thing that started this topic I guess lol

I have one thing to add.. no not everybody who is a dominant person in every situation is an asshole, the ones I met absolutly were. The good Dom(me)s (in my eyes) I know are considerate, have open communication and are not afraid to show their fears AND admit they do feel small in some situations. The same goes if you turn it the other way around, a person who owns/controls every situation is not always a good Dominant. It is still a social gift imho to be a good Dom and you don't have to be social to be dominant in a (everyday) life situation.

Another thing I wanted to say is I do believe in balance. I can be very dominant in everyday situations but that does not make me a bad sub, on the contrary. I've seen managers and CEO's crawling under a Mistress watchful eye, they need to let go of that control they have in everyday life. Does that make them less of a sub? I do not think so..

Will rant on later lol

ps:

Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
All I can say is the day you think you're perfect, you stop growing.
You have such a good point there, and I so agree