Seeking a mentor

[butterflySlave4u]

there are many here, pettobecaged...lily gives you good advise here....also come to the H&HSC, it's a safe place for you to wait as you "freefall/float"...and i know that feeling well....

[Guest011909]

there are many here, pettobecaged...lily gives you good advise here....also come to the H&HSC, it's a safe place for you to wait as you "freefall/float"...and i know that feeling well....

What is H S & C?

[icey]

there are a lot of decent Doms out there who can make good mentors i know of a couple here who i would trust and recommend though im not going to presume and post their names..but as cadence mentioned, have you thought about a sub? one with a bit of experience under their belt sometimes that can make it easier,you'll probably feel less nervous,more likely to speak about and question anything you might be worried to ask a Dom and not only can a sub give the 'practical' advice but a different perspective ....from the subs side so to speak.

if you do find a Dom mentor.. watch out for anyone who tries to persuade you that you need to be actively playing with him unfortunately there are a few out there that will take advantage, perhaps you could ask around see if he is 'known' at all ? his character ...if he has a good reputation etc

you also cant be 'trained' as such.. its generally more of a guidance and support thing than 'lessons'

[Guest011909]

i like the idea of a sub mentor. Know anyone you could recommend?

[Guest011909]

Well, i don't have any specific questions...other than the ones i've already posted...it's more the general support i was looking for...oh, heck...i don't know!

[jeanne]

Since you've been here, you've probably read lots of posts by experienced submissives. One or two probably consistently have stood out to you - you've found yourself agreeing with what they wrote or thinking that they sound a lot like you. PM them and ask if they'd be willing to be a guide/mentor/sounding board for you. (Same thing with the Doms.) I'm sure you'll get at least one positive response. Good luck!

[Tojo]

What is H S & C?

It's the Hot & Horny Subs Club, petto- http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php?t=7663

Never been there myself- too scared to look!