Quote Originally Posted by mysc View Post
My response was the whole thing that started this topic I guess lol

I have one thing to add.. no not everybody who is a dominant person in every situation is an asshole, the ones I met absolutly were. The good Dom(me)s (in my eyes) I know are considerate, have open communication and are not afraid to show their fears AND admit they do feel small in some situations. The same goes if you turn it the other way around, a person who owns/controls every situation is not always a good Dominant. It is still a social gift imho to be a good Dom and you don't have to be social to be dominant in a (everyday) life situation.

Another thing I wanted to say is I do believe in balance. I can be very dominant in everyday situations but that does not make me a bad sub, on the contrary. I've seen managers and CEO's crawling under a Mistress watchful eye, they need to let go of that control they have in everyday life. Does that make them less of a sub? I do not think so..
mysc,
Yes, your response did spark this thread, but only in the sense that you raised personal questions for me. That's a good thing! As Tojo said (and I agree) "All I can say is the day you think you're perfect, you stop growing". You made me think, that's all. I did not post this thread to bust you out, nor to make a spectacle of the couple int the other thread that I referenced. It's just that the other thread caused me to question my own place in life. Shouldn't we always question ourselves and our positions in life? The quotes that I listed were only intended for use as examples, and I did not intend to raise widespread public scrutiny of the other thread--that's why I posed my questions in another thread and forum! My questions were ligitimate personal inquiries and I am seriously interested in learning from the feedback of other Dom/mes.