W is for wax

[orangeblossoms]

Oh the coloured ones are really fun, get to decorate your body as the wax harderns, and it looks especially appealing against soft pale skin. Ive used red, pink, and regular white ones. But more than the color its just the sensation of the slight burn on the skin as the wax falls, especially on the nipples and clit, and asshole, and scariest when you let it pour over your eyes and mouth to seal them shut...Master if you read this, Im overdue for some wax play darling!!

[icey]

scariest when you let it pour over your eyes and mouth to seal them shut...

huh? you pour it over your eyes?
im surprised you havnt ended up with 3rd degree burns! especially if you are using coloured ones,the chemicals alone can easily burn.
i dont want to sound harsh or offend you but thats just irresponsible and plain dumb!!! (im telling you that for your OWN safety.
im amazed that its even possible to do without causing you any damage your eyelids must have unusually tough thick skin and you must be extremely advanced in your play and very masochistic.
i wouldnt even drip a little on my eyes let alone pour it!

edited to add....
i dont want to sound a know-all and NO im not an expert but anyone who's about to try waxing for the first time DONT ATTEMPT IT!
i wasnt going to say this actually but ive changed my mind and yes im probably going to offend everyone and get a bollocking off you all but it sounds more like fantasy than reality to me.
maybe i misread or misunderstood the post

[H Dean]

huh? you pour it over your eyes?
im surprised you havnt ended up with 3rd degree burns! especially if you are using coloured ones,the chemicals alone can easily burn.
i dont want to sound harsh or offend you but thats just irresponsible and plain dumb!!! (im telling you that for your OWN safety.
im amazed that its even possible to do without causing you any damage your eyelids must have unusually tough thick skin and you must be extremely advanced in your play and very masochistic.
i wouldnt even drip a little on my eyes let alone pour it!

Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.

Icey, for all of your experience and for all of your knowledge, it should be noted that you have made a huge jump in assuming irresponsibility because of Orangeblossoms' comment. You have assumed there was no previous testing and that no care was taken.

What would be said about your practices if assumptions were made about them? Imagine if, based on this post, I were to judge you. I would suggest you were irresponsible in making statements based on assumption. I would say you are harshly judgemental. I would also say you were untrustworthy because of how you make your judgements.

Take a bit more care, Icey, in what you say and how you say. Take a bit more care in not allowing your assumptions to overtake you. After all, how many people would suggest that your personal BDSM practices are irresponsible, wrong, a sin or should be illegal? Judge what you know and not what you assume.

edited to add....
i dont want to sound a know-all and NO im not an expert but anyone who's about to try waxing for the first time DONT ATTEMPT IT!
i wasnt going to say this actually but ive changed my mind and yes im probably going to offend everyone and get a bollocking off you all but it sounds more like fantasy than reality to me.
maybe i misread or misunderstood the post

You understood the quote. Candle wax was poured over her closed eyes. Precautions were taken and tests were made. Certain dangers were present and she was aware of them. She enjoyed it - it was fun - she didn't get burns.

Now, my question to you is; Is there anything you practice that contains any sort of danger? If so, you need to stand back and re-assess your commentary. You sound like the masses who would condemn us for our "unusual" lifestyle choices.

Don't assume and don't condemn what is not right for you - it is poor form and hypocritical. Don't suggest my girl is a liar without proof or good reason - it's poor form and a personal attack. Don't call what someone does "dumb" unless you have the facts - it's poor form and makes you appear dumb, judgemental and hypocritical.

Kindest regards,
Dean

[icey]

lol i did make a very lengthy reply quote by quote but in the end didnt bother posting it, if you felt i was attacking you and your girl then i do apologise because i wasnt,and i had acknowledged that some may not like what i was saying
what i was trying to say (obviously in the wrong way) is as a rule pouring hot wax onto the eyelids is how can i put this nicely...none too sensible! and i will not backtrack on that simply because you dont like what i have to say.


i wasnt being judgemental although im human so i guess like anyone else to a degree i am lol...and i couldnt agree more,with the things i do it would be wrong of me to condemn bdsm in any way as you say and im sure not one of the masses lol
being rude would be me saying exactly what i do think about it in much stronger words and that would be wrong and impolite.

i was simply saying what i think and will continue to do so this is a forum and unfortunately from time to time people do disagree with each other and will say what they think ..vey often much more harshly than i do lol,
as you say yourself...dont judge its poor form, i have my opinion and state it so dont judge me for that and arnt you now being hypocritical? by implying or calling me dumb...it is as you say in your own words a rather personal attack and it's judgemental.

[H Dean]

lol i did make a very lengthy reply quote by quote but in the end didnt bother posting it, if you felt i was attacking you and your girl then i do apologise because i wasnt,and i had acknowledged that some may not like what i was saying

Now you have assumed a personal situation here. I would have made a similar statement to your comment regardless of who was the catalyst.

what i was trying to say (obviously in the wrong way) is as a rule pouring hot wax onto the eyelids is how can i put this nicely...none too sensible!

There is a huge difference between something being "none too sensible" and being "irresponsible". It is far from sensible to jump out of a perfectly good aircraft to parachute to the ground below. It is, however, not irresponsible to do so providing you have attempted to take every precaution possible.

and i will not backtrack on that simply because you dont like what i have to say.

You did not say it was "none too sensible" until your response to me. You said it was "irresponsible". The statement "irresponsible" assumes a lack of care.

I am curious, do you or have you ever involved yourself in anything that is "none too sensible"?

i wasnt being judgemental although im human so i guess like anyone else to a degree i am lol

You were being highly judgemental, so this is a flat off lie. However, I will never condemn someone for being judgemental. If you are not judgemental there is something wrong with you. What I do condemn you for is being assumptive and stating that it was "irresponsible", and basing your judgement on assumption.

...and i couldnt agree more,with the things i do it would be wrong of me to condemn bdsm in any way as you say and im sure not one of the masses lol

Very wise of you.

being rude would be me saying exactly what i do think about it in much stronger words and that would be wrong and impolite.

Making a statement, if true, is not incorrect or wrong, regardless of the strength of your words. The message may not be heard, however. This, nonetheless, has nothing to do with the topic at hand.

i was simply saying what i think and will continue to do so this is a forum and unfortunately from time to time people do disagree with each other and will say what they think

No one is attempting to halt your expression, least of all me. However, responsibility for what you say is yours. You made a statement that was, as I mentioned, assumptive (unknowing of full factual data) and, therefore, irresponsible.

..vey often much more harshly than i do lol,

Harsh works for me so long as the statement has proper thought put into it and is not assumption based, as your statement was.

as you say yourself...dont judge its poor form

No, I did not say that - you assume I said that because you didn't pay attention to my post.

i have my opinion and state it so dont judge me for that

You may have your opinion and I will judge you based on your actions and opinions and anything else you do - just as I expect to be judged on my own.

and arnt you now being hypocritical?

No. I never said anything about not judging. I spoke of assumption.

by implying or calling me dumb...

I neither called nor implied you were dumb. Either this is more assumption on your part or you have difficulty comprehending simple English. I will assume, based on my experiences with you, that it is the former.

it is as you say in your own words a rather personal attack and it's judgemental.

You assume a personal attack because you did not actually read what I had to say.

As I said before; Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups.

[icey]

the super sensitive areas are the best making casts can be a lot of fun too, unfortunately it isnt easy keeping them intact when removing them.

i have a 'bust' in my bedroom although its slightly out of shape and not vey flattering lol

[~faerie~]

Oh the coloured ones are really fun, get to decorate your body as the wax harderns, and it looks especially appealing against soft pale skin. Ive used red, pink, and regular white ones. But more than the color its just the sensation of the slight burn on the skin as the wax falls, especially on the nipples and clit, and asshole!!

i like soft green ones,
and i definitely love the way they feel on those sensitive places.
So far soy has worked best.
Master loves to crop the hardened wax off....
Always start out slow and careful. This is something that can be immensely enjoyable if done right.
*runs off to get a candle*