Broken Promises-- Honorable?

[~minx~]

Many thanks to You all for the replies....Indeed, a lesson has been learned in all of this! i did trust this person at the time and it is diappointing! i was and am still hoping that he does the right thing, if not, so be it...

right now, what i'm really hoping for is that maybe, he sees this and is able to admit to himself that he's done wrong and also, to those who know who he is, perhaps, his claims of being honorable, in the past threads and posts will not hold such credibility or truth as before!

And, yes, I agree it's very disappointing to be let down like this by a man professing to be, as you say, "honorable".

Does it bother him? I would hope it would, enough so for him to do the honorable thing by you.

Alex, as always Your opinions and thoughts hold a wisdom, i would love to have and hope to gain without disappointments in obtaining...thx, so much!

It reminds me of the cartoon Popeye. Remember Wimpy? He was always asking for money for hamburgers that he would gladly repay on Tuesday.

lol...oh my...love Your humor and will most likely see him and this in a whole new way!!
kisses to you!

Interesting question minx. I make big purchases for my girls. I might ask them to front minor costs if the cost of me sending the item is higher than the value of the item. But big ticket items? No - I cover those myself.

The extra effort was no big deal - my girl's worth it!

Your girl is very lucky and one can only hope, your ways are lessons learned by others!! Thx! kisses and hugs!

First - yes, you should be reimbursed.
Second - unfortunately, you may not be.
Third - have you tried asking for a potential expected date for reimbursement, or asking if there's a financial issue right now that prevents reimbursement?

Good luck, minx.

Yes, to the third statement, except that, he has not responded to make me aware of any issues...and if that is the case and he should let me know, i will be happy to work out something with him!

Frankly, if you don't have something in writing, you're probably up the creek- as thrall says, it's a test of honour.

BTW- Good siggy minx

Hi Tojo, it is in writng hun, in the last email he sent to me, it is promised! BTW- glad you like siggy...hugs to you hun and thx!

Wish this were a perfect world where everyone did as expected and right but it isn't. You are definitely entitled to reimbursement in my opinion but that accounts for nothing. I think you have learned a costly lesson and I feel badly for you. Honorable doesn't seem to mean what it once did.

The old saying is true, We are too soon old and too late smart. I know you will learn from this and be careful when choosing another Master but it was costly not only monetarily. Let's just hope something positive comes from all of this.

WB, you are very dear to me and i highly admire and respect you! You are very wise and have helped me a great deal...many can learn from you and Whippett and i hope they do....only thinking positive, now and smiling! Thx hon!

Long story short? You got taken, plain & simple. Lick your wounds, and move forward... and in the future... remember this experience...

Good luck ~minx~

Thx delia....big hugs! i am moving on, stronger and wiser than before and holding on to your well wishes of good luck!

I always live by the standard to never lend money that you can't afford to lose. Buying something for someone would fall into this category as well.

If this "master" is unwilling to stand up and do the right thing, I suspectyou are probably just going to have to chalk it up as a learning experience.

Thx lily...i have learned well the hard way and my eyes have been opened....it won't happen again, that's for sure!! hugs!