i cant say that i have any shame over anything i fantasise about, for a little while i was a bit nervous to openly admit to Icehawk about ageplaying in sex which id fantasised about for quite a while but thats because i wasnt sure of his reaction and not out of any shame though he'd guessed anyway, im not comfortable mixing other types of play in with that but if even if i did start to fantasise about that then im 100% certain i wouldnt feel ashamed and would be happy to bring it from fantasy to reality.

ive never been ashamed of any fantasys ive had, confused as to why i might fantasise about some things lol
i cant really see why there needs to be any shame although i know that some people do feel it and i think thats sad, in fantasy you should be able to let your imagination run wild and enjoy it in whatever shape it takes its the one place we have thats free!