Quote Originally Posted by ObjectivistActivist View Post
Just as a note, some men actually are capable of refusing to participate in casual sex, or sex without emotional attachment. Some of us actually are capable of growing up. I had a fair bit of casual sex when I was younger, but I found that it was completely unfulfilling and just stopped looking for it. As someone else noted, I spent that energy looking instead for someone I could connect with emotionally before connecting physically.

Making it about men vs women is a bit trite, IMNSHO. There are, I think, just as many women out there looking to "lay and leave" as there are men.
Pretty much what I was trying to say- so much for me being diplomatic before 10AM.

I think I was 21 when I realised that sex without love is about as appealing as Hendrix without his guitar.

Edit: in fact I can't even play with a girl online unless I have an emotional attachment with her, it just seems fake & pointless.