Quote Originally Posted by AdrianaAurora View Post

One other thought, I have heard of women who react to orgasm so strongly that they are reduced to crying wrecks every time. Perhaps your reaction is something similar.
Doesn't happen so often with men, but I agree it can happen with women. It happens when you have REALLY good sex, usually when you delay the point of orgasm for a long long time. First time I experienced it (from the side of the person inflicting the orgasm) I was worried I had done something wrong or even hurt her. It also require a high level of trust between the couple as it is also a thing that requires complete abandon by the woman.

A lot of emotions get flung around during sex and it is during this time that the attachments start to build. You could be right to say that men do not get as attached so often as women because they rarely experience such intense orgasm as they do. However, in theory, it could happen that a man could get an orgasm this intense and that could cause the crying emotion you mention. If this is the case, can you tell me the name of the woman cos she must be great in bed...

I am unsual among the men I know in that (when I was supposedly playing the field many years ago) I found it difficult to do the causal thing. The shortest one night stand I had was 2 weeks long and it only ended because I had to move city at the end of the two weeks. We had agreed when we first met that it was a one night thing and we kept up that lie all through the two weeks. Not sure what would have happened had I stayed . However, it seems from some of the posts here there are others like me and it is good to know I was not a total freak for wanting a bit of monogamy and long term committment