H&HSC Mentoring Program...

[gemmy]

A long time ago when I was first new to letting my subbie side finally breath and have a life, it terrified me to talk to anyone. I sat back and read and read and read. I had a Domly type tell me I should go on the sites and meet other subbies and talk to them to learn.

Scared out of my mind, I freaked out at him - "Are you kidding!?! I have no experience, no knowledge, no basis, they'll just laugh me out of any chatroom or site. No way!!"

I had no idea that experienced subbies have been in a new subs shoes, remember all the trepidation, the fear, the doubt that a new sub goes through. I also had no idea how wonderfully kind they are and are happily willing to share their experiences with you to help teach you and keep you from harm of the wannabes.

It still took me about a year to come around and start talking to these 'wonderous' subs who live the life and know well what it's all about and how hard it really can be. I have since mentored a few and am happy I've been able to contribute back what was once given to me.

All of these ladies posting and offering their help are amazing and worth taking up on their offer

[butterflySlave4u]

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[stripedangel]

A long time ago when I was first new to letting my subbie side finally breath and have a life, it terrified me to talk to anyone. I sat back and read and read and read. I had a Domly type tell me I should go on the sites and meet other subbies and talk to them to learn.

Scared out of my mind, I freaked out at him - "Are you kidding!?! I have no experience, no knowledge, no basis, they'll just laugh me out of any chatroom or site. No way!!"

I had no idea that experienced subbies have been in a new subs shoes, remember all the trepidation, the fear, the doubt that a new sub goes through. I also had no idea how wonderfully kind they are and are happily willing to share their experiences with you to help teach you and keep you from harm of the wannabes.

It still took me about a year to come around and start talking to these 'wonderous' subs who live the life and know well what it's all about and how hard it really can be. I have since mentored a few and am happy I've been able to contribute back what was once given to me.

All of these ladies posting and offering their help are amazing and worth taking up on their offer

LOL! ...and here you are, giving some of the best advice i've seen. i've said it before and i'll say it again, you're a gem!

[Borgs_slave]

AScared out of my mind, I freaked out at him - "Are you kidding!?! I have no experience, no knowledge, no basis, they'll just laugh me out of any chatroom or site. No way!!"

It is a shame that some sites foster that kind of no learning environment. I think as a community we have a duty to help those new and not admonish them for trying to learn. People forget that they were new once too. When I was 22 I went to a munch and a submissive that supposedly "mentored" told me to bring a note pad because she only answered stupid questions once. I failed to see how that fostered learning and growth and vowed to never be like that.

[gemmy]

It is a shame that some sites foster that kind of no learning environment. I think as a community we have a duty to help those new and not admonish them for trying to learn. People forget that they were new once too. When I was 22 I went to a munch and a submissive that supposedly "mentored" told me to bring a note pad because she only answered stupid questions once. I failed to see how that fostered learning and growth and vowed to never be like that.

Hi hun, I think you've taken my quote a bit out of context there lol - that's only what I thought would happen, being so new and all but never did happen. In all honesty, on all the sites I've been on, I've only found gentle help and guidance from those that are true at least

[butterflySlave4u]

*smiles looking above*

two different voices saying the same thing, and that's the passion that we carry with us about this program...Hugggggggs to you both.....Thank You...


Karen