Emotional attachment and Sex

[Isabelle90]

Um, stop having sex with men and start enjoying the pleasures of women? That answer is a bit facetious but there is truth to it. You can't expect men to react like women do, especially emotionally. They just aren't wired that way. Yet another way that women are better, IMHO.

ER
ps. The recruiter is in.

Still trying to get those numbers up for your quota, huh??? LOL

Pretty much what I was trying to say- so much for me being diplomatic before 10AM.

I think I was 21 when I realised that sex without love is about as appealing as Hendrix without his guitar.

Edit: in fact I can't even play with a girl online unless I have an emotional attachment with her, it just seems fake & pointless.

Tojo, you just brought up something I've been denying for a long time! I've been so adamant about "no emotional attachment", but have been unable to play with anyone unless there is a connection. Without that spark it would be difficult to learn likes and dislikes and have an understanding of a partner. In addition, the aftercare would seem insincere to me. However, this is not to say that wedding bells are inevitable!!! Compatibility in one aspect of a person's life does not always translate into compatibility in other areas...

I enjoy the fact that I have a partner I can have a thoughtful conversation with when we're taking a break. So, I'm wondering if this is considered emotional attachment. Emotions and sex are employed, but I have no intention of getting attached.....

This must be a conversation and agreement between two people before any physical relationship takes place, imo. All the more reason to not just "jump in the sack" without knowing a person first!