Sounds like you are in the frenzy stage right now. You have discovered this new and wonderful thing and want to experience it all the time. The reality is that bills have to be paid, kids have to cared for and jobs have to gone to. Realizing that you have a long time to discover and grow will help you calm down a bit. Don't find a dominant out of desperation because that will cause disaster. Take your time and find someone compatible with you.