Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
<snip> As far as humility is concerned... yes, maybe, if you think a D/s relationship should be sub-centric, but in one that is dom-centric, isn't humility more appropriately within the sub's domain?

Humility is the state of being humble (meriam-webster)
Humble is:
1: not proud or haughty : not arrogant or assertive
2: reflecting, expressing, or offered in a spirit of deference or submission <a humble apology>
3 a: ranking low in a hierarchy or scale : insignificant, unpretentious b: not costly or luxurious <a humble contraption>

By that definition, you can't be humble and be dominant. Unless you want to use different definitions or pick and choose which parts of the definition you mean.
I think most of us were using humility as lacking in false pride. There is nothing wrong with having a firm belief in your own skills and abilities. The problem is arrogantly thinking that you know it all and that you have nothing left to learn. Even in a dom-centric relationship: "Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall." (Proverbs 16:18)