well yes and no I can be ID'd by the way we act. I don't talk about everyone. But there are some sign's to ID us. I can usally tell someone in the lifestyle I never meet just by the way they are and the way we act. My new sub and I bumped into a couple at work. Me and him look at each other and new off the bat that we D's. He look at my girl and new she was new and that she was my sub he treated her with the respect that she was a sub. Well my girl is new to the lifestyle. When I had the chance I told her to look at him and his wife. Told her to look in her eyes and did she see something fimilar in her eyes that she saw in her's when she look in the mirrior( contemptment). Also how He treated her. So yes there are times you can tell us from those who are not. By manner and sometimes by what we wear.


MrDom