It really depends. When I went to visit my boyfriend we went to a concert and I wore a collar with a chain leash on it. He tugged on it off and on through out the night and was rather possesive of me. Some guys punched me in the jaw when the floor turned into a giant pit... and my boyfriend looked like he was going to kill the guy, he just lunged for him and made sure he wasn't coming back for me... most of the night before the main band we just sat on a little ledge, me beneath him between his legs and he rubbed my shoulders and such...

It just really depends. Sometimes I wear a collar or what not.. we don't really -live- the lifestyle right now.. but its very obvious that I am submissive.

I can usually pick people out too who are...

Anya