Quote Originally Posted by Warbaby1943
Do you have traits, other than the occasional subtle playful gesture to your D or s, that would make you stand out in public places and have someone say, at least to themselves, “I bet that couple lives the kinky life style.”

I think at a glance we are viewed as any other vanilla couple. If someone was to look closer they would see that I do behave in a way that shows he is the authority in our relationship. Meaning that when we are in public and there is a question on something I often turn to him to answer it. He also orders for me at a restaurant which I guess could make people wonder. I like the thought that we are seen as D/s. It's not something I feel we should flaunt, but I don't see that we should hide it either.