Quote Originally Posted by StillBehindBlueEyes
So I guess the answer would be yes I could be identified but in the same breath, so would hubby. So they would be right and wrong.
My point exactly - appearances can be very deceiving at times. As I said originally, people looking for signs would pick my wife and me out and be totally wrong, at least as far as sexual kinks go. I am the king of my castle if that counts for anything.

I guess my intent of this post was to try to identify the kinky life style more than who is the boss of the household, if that makes sense. That is what I found myself doing at a couple parties last weekend. Never will know how accurate I was.