Originally posted by Mr. FixIt:
It has taken years to get her to realize how beautiful, wonderful, caring, loving and intelligent she is. I could never utilize humiliation techniques with her. For her, such BDSM tactics would be demonstrative and demolishing of what I have tried to help her recognize.
Everyone has limits and those need to be respected. Some of us have more limits, some have different ones than others. It takes a good, person to see where things should not go. I have heard of some Dom/mes who treat hard limits as challenges, or personal mountains to conquer. You are right, it would be bad to push in that direction. stripey is one lucky woman to have you FixIt.

I can't say too much about you and your dad, it hits way too close to home for me. Unfortunately, it's still an open wound. Still, thanks for sharing.